Monday, March 14, 2016

Indian Marriage; How To be a Terrific Person

Overcast rainy day.. but not too cold.

Today I want to publish some great information that I received from an Indian guy named Shrini.  Shrini was in Toastmasters with me some time ago.  Shrini was in his late 20's and felt that it was time to get married, so he contacted his parents back in India, and told them how he felt.  His parents then searched and found a match for him.

Shrini went nervously to India to marry the lady that the family had picked.  When he came back to the US, he had his new bride with him.  She was breathtakingly beautiful!  Also, she had what Shrini had, a Masters Degree in Computer Technology.  Shrini could not stop smiling.

How to be a Terrific Person

o  Treat the ones you love better than anyone else in the world.

o  Consistently speak lovingly to them.

o  Never take your anxieties or troubles out on them.

o  If you say "sorry" .. mean it.

o  Give, give, and give more.

o  Stop looking for differences.  Look for similarities.

o  When good things happen to others, get excited as if it happened to you.

o  Don't sweat the small stuff.  Don't be petty.

o  Empower and inspire people by believing in them.

o  Always perpetuate the spiral of friendship.  Share terrific people with others.

How do you recognize a Terrific Person?

o  Do you feel excited and energized after talking to or being with this person?

o  Are you in a great mood when  you are around this person?

o  Deep down, do you really like the person and do you feel he or she likes you?

o  Do you come away feeling confident after being around this person?

o  Does the person make you feel great, attractive, intelligent, respected and worthy?

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Be honest now... are you a terrific person?

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